Rose Marie Debevc
April 29, 1921 ~ November 12, 2017
Rose Marie Debevc, age 96, of Madison, OH passed away on Sunday, November 12, 2017 at her home. Born April 29, 1921 she was the daughter of Paul Petrovic and Rose Sega. She married Tony Joseph Debevc in 1943.
Together, Rose and Tony owned and operated Chalet Debonne Winery along with their son Tony and daughter-in-law Beth. It was the first winery in the Grand River Valley region, established in 1972. One of the most respected wineries in the country, it has earned numerous accolades. The Debevcs were named the first American Wine Family of the Year in 1985 in the national trade publication Vineyard and Winery Management. They were inducted into the Ohio Wine Hall of Fame. Rose and Tony enjoyed dancing polkas and playing pinochle with their large group of friends. They would take their boat fishing on Lake Erie and to their condo on Marblehead. Rose and Tony were world travelers and on enjoyed motor coach trips across the country. Their children were raised educated, responsible and hard working. Family was first and Rose ensured her home was filled with love and support.
Rose was truly a women before her time. She was smart, savvy and had an incredible work ethic. In another era, she might have been president of a major corporation. Through her life, she was passionate about her family and the winery. She committed herself to causes that impacted her life and those of her family. As a 'city girl' she was determined that her children fully enjoyed their life on the farm but wanted to make sure they had the opportunity to experience the world beyond their South Madison home. Drives into Cleveland via SR 84 to visit family often meant visits to the History Museum and every Easter Sunday included parading around the Art Museum pond. Christmas time always included a trip to downtown Cleveland to see the Sterling Linder tree and the Higbees' and May Company window displays. Often lunch meant a stop at Halle's Tea Room where she had worked after high school. During the first years of their marriage, there was no electricity in their little house, but her table was usually decorated with a vase of flowers that dad had picked earlier in the day. When the possibility of phone service [including a 10 party line] was discussed, she, almost single handedly, made sure that 7743 Doty Road was serviced with a phone number of 5525. When the old SR 528 Grand River Bridge was condemned and her children had to exit the school bus to walk across the bridge each day, she organized the ladies of the Hilltoppers Club and led the charge to get the high level bridge constructed. She was frugal: every year meant canning literally hundreds of quart of peaches, pears and tomatoes. She sewed beautifully and made amazing apple strudels and Slovenian poticas. She managed the 'books' of the winery well into her eighties and helped the business prosper. Her faith was strong and instilled that into her children. She was tough: despite a bout with polio as a small child, it never slowed her down. One of our fondest memories is watching Mom and Dad glide across a dance floor like they were skating on ice. She learned to drive in her forties so her kids could participate in school activities. She was tall and elegant and for church, always dressed to the nines, surely with a hat and sometimes with gloves. But, she was equally adept at driving a tractor through the vines as her husband walked behind with a hand held grape hoe. She was incredibly generous and kind to her entire family. She was loved so very much.
Rose is survived by her daughter, Donniella (Larry) Winchell; son, Anthony Paul (Beth) Debevc; grandchildren, Cherilyn Long, Michelle (Chad) Edgar, Mark (Stacie) Winchell, Amanda Debevc, Tony Scott (Rachael) Debevc; great-grandchildren, Victoria, Madeline and Vivien Long, Colt, Reed and Helaina Edgar and Gabriella, Genevieve and Jake Winchell; and sister Eleanor Debevc. She was preceded in death by her husband, Tony, her parents and her siblings.
Friends will be received 5-8pm on Thursday, November 16, 2017 at Behm Family Funeral Home, 26 River Street, Madison, OH 44057. Mass of Christian Burial will be 11:00am on Friday, November 17, 2017 at Immaculate Conception Church, 2846 Hubbard Road in Madison. Rev. Sean Donnelly will officiate the service. Final resting place will be Fairview Memorial Park in Madison.
Friends may leave condolences online at www.behmfuneral.com
What a lovely woman. My husband and I knew Rose for many years. Every time we saw her she'd give us a big hug. She will truly be missed.
Donnie, Tony,et.al, So very sorry for your loss of Rose “Mother Debevc”. Both your Dad & Mom, were very special people to me and anyone having the privilege to have known them. They both set high standards for us to follow of God, Family, Friends and Hard Work. Tony & Rose enjoyed everything they did and put 150% into everything. They were a truly amazing couple who passed the attributes of Love and Ethics to the next generation. They will be missed but we are blessed to have had them for so long and now they are enjoying life together again in heaven. Well done thy good and faithful servants, Enter In…
I’m so sorry. Rose was an amazing lady. One who created & left many blessings for everyone. She will always be in your heart. I truly enjoyed her talks with me.
We were very sorry to hear about “rose”,we all knew she was looking to be with her “tony” and she got her wish,she was a fine lady.its not easy to loose your mother,no matter how old. Edandjean dollar
So sorry for your loss. Rose will be greatly missed. She was a wonderful lady who we always enjoyed seeing on our trips to the winery over the years.
Jim, Denise & Darlene
We were so sad to hear of your loss. Her smiling face will be sadly missed at the Winery. We have many fond memories of Rose and Tony during our many visits to Debonne. Condolences to your wonderful family.
Sending our sympathy to Tony, Beth, Doniella. & Mark. I have a woman cousin in Waterford, PA with funeral same day, and calling hours almost the same. Sorry we can't make it, and we will always remember your Mom, she was a very nice lady! The Riddell's Linda & John
Our condolences to the entire Debevc Family. May you find peace in your memories.
I am soo sorry about Rose!! I am unable to get out and attend the services but know that I would be there if I could physically/ Donnie and Larry, Tony and Beth …. What a lovely lady Glad she will be with her wonderful husband now.. A wonderful family Mary Lou McCracken and Al Sharon
My sincere condolences go out to the entire Debevc family in the passing of Rose. She was always a pleasure to see at the winery and very passionate about the family business. Rose always made myself and colleagues from the OSU/OARDC Viticulture and Enology program feel welcome and was a true delight to talk with on many occasions. She will be deeply missed!
Todd Steiner
My heart is heavy with the news of Rose's passing. While I likely never met her, I grew up in the shadow of her presence. As a kid growing up in the area, you get to know which families are the good ones, and the Debevcs are at the top of that list. Good families come from good individuals and Rose was one of the best.
The Johnson family wishes you to know we are all thinking and praying for your family. I personally have great memories of both your mother and father.
Tony, Beth, Donnie and Larry and your entire family, i wish to offer you my sincere sympathies on the loss of your mother, grandmother and great grandmother. I know how hard it is to loose your rock. My prayers are with you all. God Bless Rose.
Dear Donnie and Tony:
Please accept our deepest sympathies in the passing of your mother Rose. What a wonderful, long, active and productive life. Ninety-six years of a life packed with activity, including, of course, the winery.
Vicki and I regret greatly that we are unable to attend the services for Rose, but unfortunately Vicky is undergoing medical treatment both Thursday and Friday that prevent our attending the services.
However, if you could provide me with the name of a favorite charity or other cause that Rose favored, we would love to make a contribution on her behalf.
Again, please accept our sincere sympathies.
Fred and Vicky Haupt
So sorry to hear about you mother's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
From our family to yours…we send our deepest condolences upon the loss of your family matriarch. We truly adore your family and send our love and prayers to you all.
Dear Tony and Beth. I am sorry to learn of your mother's passing. Rose always made me feel appreciated. My condolences to you and your family. She will be missed.
We are very sorry for your loss. It's never easy to lose a parent no matter how long you have them with you. You have all honored her so beautifully. Our prayers are with you at this time.
Condolences to Tony, Beth and all of the Rose Marie Debevc family on your loss. It is never easy to lose a loved one no matter what age. My sincere sympathy.