David E. Matchinga
March 21, 1953 ~ December 29, 2019
David Ernest Matchinga, 66, of Middlefield, Ohio went home to be with his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ on December 29, 2019. He transitioned to glory peacefully, surrounded by his loving family, after a lengthy battle with pancreatic cancer.
Dave was born in Painesville, Ohio, to Ernest and Joyce (Klemm) Matchinga on March 21, 1953. He grew up in Madison where he and his brother, Jim, engaged in shenanigans with his life-long friends Frank Gorsuch and Dave Hammel. Dave played saxophone in the band at Madison High School.
Upon completing high school, Dave attended The Ohio State University where he received a bachelor’s degree in music education and continued to play the saxophone in several bands. He married his high school sweetheart, Jan (Messenger) Matchinga on September 15, 1973 in Madison, Ohio. Jan and Dave welcomed their son, Michael Ernest Matchinga, on August 8, 1975 and their daughter, Erin Elizabeth “Mitten Bee” (Matchinga) Gragg on May 18, 1980. Both children were born in London, Ohio.
Dave and the family moved to Thompson, Ohio in 1983. He found joy in coaching baseball and planning vacations for his family and friends. An avid history buff and Cleveland Indians fan, many of these vacations were to Gettysburg, Spring Training in Winterhaven, Florida, or any other historical location where a cannon could be found. Dave loved Disney and planned several wonderful family vacations in Orlando as well. Dave was well known and respected in the car industry where he worked in sales, management, and as corporate trainer. Dave retired from Classic earlier this year where he worked with his son-in-law, Chris Gragg.
The joy of Dave’s life was being the proud Papa to David “Mr. Big” Matchinga, Riley “Tweets” Matchinga, Caden “Pal” Gragg, and Alaina “Peekie” Gragg. He was extremely close with each of his grandchildren and was kept very busy cheering the kids on at gymnastics meets, theater productions, band concerts, and dance recitals. He found countless ways to impress the kids with his slight of hand as “Papa the Magnificent” and acted as “The General” on countless family vacations (many of which, to the kids’ dismay, involved history lessons that included trivia). Dave and Jan moved to Middlefield in 2006 to be closer to their grandchildren.
Dave’s other passion was playing his saxophone. He taught several students over the years, including his grandson, Caden, who now plays the sax for Cardinal High School Marching Band. He found immeasurable joy in serving on the worship team for several years at Morning Star Friends Church in Chardon, Ohio with his daughter-in-law, Mandi.
During his brief retirement, Dave enjoyed spending time fishing on Lake Erie with his son, Mike, and several of his friends from Horizons Christian Assembly. He was pleased that this summer was probably the best season of fishing that he’s seen since the 1980’s, although he was always quick to remind everyone that a bad day of fishing is still better than a great day at work. Dave leaves a legacy of faith, family and humor. He will be remembered for his kindness, his quick wit, and his uncanny ability to photo bomb any picture.
Dave is survived by his loving wife, Jan (Messenger) Matchinga of Middlefield; son Michael Matchinga and his wife Mandi (Larkin) Matchinga of Parkman; daughter Erin (Matchinga) Gragg and her husband Chris Gragg of Windsor; grandsons David Matchinga and Caden Gragg; granddaughters Riley Matchinga and Alaina Gragg; mother Joyce (Klemm) Matchinga of Park Hills, Kentucky; brother Jim Matchinga and his wife Cathleen (Zack) Matchinga of Park Hills, Kentucky; and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins. His father, Ernest Matchinga, precedes him in death.
Calling hours will take place on January 2 from 2:00-4:00 p.m. and 6:00-8:00 p.m. at Behm Funeral Home 26 River Street, Madison. The memorial service will take place on Friday, January 3 at 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home and will be officiated by Pastor Matt Chesnes of Morning Star Friends Church and Pastor Patrick Robinson of Horizons Christian Assembly. A graveside service will follow at Fairview Memorial Park in Madison.
Should friends desire, contributions can be made in Dave’s name to The National Park Service Gettysburg Foundation. https://www.nps.gov/gett/getinvolved/supportyourpark/index.htm
Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21
Online obituary and condolences may be viewed at www.behmfuneral.com
Our sincere condolences to all of you on Dave's passing. He was a great guy and we'll miss him. Love, Jerry and Susan
Jim, Sally and I are very sad to here the news about your older brother. I know he must have been a great person since his younger brother is one of the greatest and I am sure you got a lot of that greatness from him. We are keeping you and all your family in our thoughts and prayers. Bob & Sally Larkin
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of David. The loss of a loved one can bring much pain and sorrow. Isaiah 25:8 reads, “ He will swallow up death forever, And the Sovereign Lord Jehovah will wipe away the tears from all faces.” I hope these words bring you comfort during these difficult times. I will keep the family in my prayers.
We're so sorry to hear about your loss. David was a great Musician, family man, Christian with a wonderful sense of humor. So glad we came to visit in August and get some time with David. We will remember him for the many accomplishments, some fun times together and being a life long friend. Holly & Alan
My deepest sympathy to Jan, Dave's children and grandchildren, as well as other family and friends. I was very surprised and saddened to hear the news of Dave's illness and passing while reading the recent MHS class of '71 newsletter written by our classmate Stu Smith. This was “after the fact”, so I missed the calling hours and funeral. No doubt these events were a wonderful tribute to Dave's life. I have shared these memories in our class newsletter but will share again. I enjoyed many hours working with Dave, while we were in high school, at The Hub which was Madison's first fast food restaurant. Working with Dave was filled with fun. I also enjoyed seeing Dave( and his beloved bride and fellow classmate Jan)at our class reunions. My husband and I were also blessed to have had dinner with Dave, Jan and a few other classmates a number of years ago. My heart breaks for all of you and I know Dave will be missed by many. Cathy Johnston Williams