Alan Ames Alexander
May 26, 1939 ~ April 21, 2023
Alan Ames Alexander, 83, a beloved family man and respected pediatrician with a lifelong passion for music passed away at his home on April 5, 2023.
Alan was born in 1939 in Cleveland, Ohio, the son of Homer and Mariam (Tritt) Alexander. He grew up in East Cleveland, Ohio where he graduated from Shaw High School.
He attended Ohio Wesleyan University and received his medical doctor degree from The Ohio State University. Alan practiced pediatric medicine in the U.S. Navy; Lafayette, Indiana; Palm Desert, California and Keokuk, Iowa. He retired from practicing pediatrics after 50 years on his 80th birthday. He was a gifted pediatrician whose patients loved him.
While attending Ohio Wesleyan University he met and married his first wife, Joann Blocher. They later divorced. He married his wife of 48 years, Audrey Alexander, in 1974.
Alan had a lifelong love of music. While in high school, he played the trombone in the Shaw Rhythm Teens. He sang tenor in choruses both during his school years and throughout his lifetime. The Bach Chorale singers, the Lafayette Chamber Singers, California Desert Chorale, Sandblaster’s Chorus and Prairieland Barbershop Chorus were just a few of the chorus with whom he performed. Alan and Audrey enjoyed singing Christian duets in the churches they attended throughout their marriage. In his younger days, Alan loved to jog in his free time. He ran several marathons in his younger days.
Alan is survived by his wife, Audrey; sons, Daniel (Alex), David (Kim) and daughters Eve Rotterman (Michael) and Christie Ernst (Warren) and two step-sons, Bert Linson (Sabine) and Rick Williams (Tim). Grandchildren: Aaron Linson, David Linson, Tirzah Linson, Ben Alexander, Sam Alexander, Christy Ford, Jacob Linson, Christian Linson (Leah), Patrick Forte, Daina Forte (Sven), Zachary Collins, Andrew Collins, Connor Rotterman, Ellie Rotterman, Alexander Ernst, Brody Ernst; Brother, John (Sue) and sister-in law, Linda Alexander.
Alan was preceded in death by his parents, Homer and Mariam, and his father-in-law, Lloyd Kelly and mother in law, Harriet Kelly, brother, Chuck Alexander (Linda). Also surviving are several nieces and nephews and great grandchildren.
In his memory, the family will host a celebration of life on Saturday, May 13, 2023 from 1:00 - 2:30 pm. at the Behm Family Funeral Home, 26 River Street, Madison, Ohio. A Memorial Service will follow at 2:30 pm.
Donations in Alan’s name may be made to the Hospice of the Western Reserve, P.O. Box 72101, Cleveland, Ohio 44192.
With deepest condolences for the loss of your father, Christie. I light this candle as a representation of the light he brought to our lives and the light you will carry on in his memory. With love, Michelle
I’m so very sorry to hear about Dr. Alexander. He was an excellent pediatrician and a good man. He even kept my son as his patient after my son started freaking out when Doc was getting a throat swab from him… Doc jumped back, and his rolling stool flew out from under him and down he went. He hit his head, split his elbow open and as I reached down to help him up, he was literally seeing stars. Dr. Alexander admitted that had never happened before, but as always, he was still concerned about my boy and not his own injuries. I’ll be forever grateful for Dr. Alexander.
Al was a kind man and a gentleman. I was their minister in Keokuk til my retirement. I was with Audrey the day Al tumbled off the motor home.
Our thoughts and love will always be filled with your memory.
Alan, you were such a sweet and caring man, a great father and grandfather, a dedicated husband, and a very special father in-law to me. You will be sorely missed, and the world will be sadder place without your wonderful smile and giving soul here. Rest in Peace Alan. All my love, Warren
Mrs. Alexander, I am very sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry to hear about Dr. Alexanders passing. He was my kids pediatrician for many years and was always very kind each time we had an appointment. I am beyond grateful that my kids received most of their Pediatric care from Dr. A and when I let my oldest know of his passing this morning, his words were “he was a nice man, I always liked seeing him.” Imagine that. My son had eczema, a speech impediment, and some other difficult kidney issues when he was small and he remembers those difficult times, but he what he remembered more, was how important Dr. A made him feel each visit and how he personally helped him get the right Speech therapist and Urologist. To hear that Dr. A made these visits easier on him with his kindness and compassionate bedside manner (not to mention his humor) it absolutely warmed my heart. I wish I could thank you Dr. Alexander – not only for your service and dedication to my kids, but to the children and families here in the Coachella Valley but also for your military service and all of your humanitarian efforts you so selflessly gave yourself to. Thank you. You were one of the good ones and I take comfort knowing you are now in a far better place. My condolences and prayers for Dr. Alexanders family. My family shares in your loss and we are so grateful to have known him. God bless.
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Dr. Alexander was the best pediatrician my son had. Condolences to his family.